This situation happens to camgirls a lot more than pornstars, but those of us in the in-between get a whole plentitude of it - strangers (usually older conservative folks) that are convinced they know more about our well-being than we do. I have the advantage that not only am I in my thirties now with plenty of experience under my belt (giggity), but that I've also piled into that a wopping thirteen years of adult pornographic experience in a variety of respects, giving me an excellent idea of what can, and can't, become from this career path I've chosen. The following is the most recent conversation with one of these standard 'you shouldn't do porn, there's better jobs' fellows on My professional facebook (and if you're in need of that, I promise, it's exactly what you'd expect it to be, CamGirlKitten).
"Jim: It nice to see but to old for you my wife just pass away 3 month ago
Me: clearly not here to date, so age isn't a concern. Go to my profile then about me and read all the sections!
Jim: I wasn't thinking of that way stop showing your self like that these guys wouldn't think way is that how you get atention
Me: 'these guys' read my profile and realized I was a professional 13 year veteran pornstar before they randomly added a pretty girl with the hopes that somehow facebook would increase their chances of getting laid.
I show off because it's my sole source of income for over a decade, not magically going to stop because one person who's never bought anything thinks its giving dudes the wrong idea.
Jim: You shouldn't do it on Facebook some time kids get on it
Me: I'm aware, that's why I'd never post anything truly adult oriented here, and make it a point to report every single thing I find, including unsolicited genitalia photos.
Hence why my clothes are on in all my photos here, they're just sexy. Providing links to those that appear to be of age solely when they request them does no more harm than google would provide.
Jim: There better job then that an your diginity why lower your self
Me: There's nothing undignified about pornography, especially when I'm never filming with partners I don't already genuinely have recreationally. Trust me, this is an argument many conservative older fellows have tried to have with me, especially in the first two years of my career, and that was 11 years ago.
Just recognize that I'm clearly intelligent enough to make my own decisions, and that I may know a lot more about the most appropriate, fruitful life path for myself than a stranger.
I enjoy what I do very much, it allows me to stay at home for months at a time if I wish, keep my own schedule very loosely as I wish, profit directly from sales of content I've done for years with little need to film new content (resulting in basically money for nothing but marketing), and travel anywhere I wish and still maintain my job, even if I stay there for months.
Jim: You have lots learn in life
Me: additionally, I've got around 100,000 fans, and have helped support a newer generation of personally producing pornographers who, until finding me as a role model, didn't have the confidence to believe they could succeed and profit in this.
And it actually sounds like quite the opposite here. Just because it's a side of the world you have no actual knowledge of doesn't mean it's wrong - and attempting to try to convince people to make decisions based on anything but their own experiences is flat out ignorant.
Even my old dog learns more tricks than you will. Good luck."
Obviously I found a lot of humor in an older gentleman that's clearly had plenty of time to learn proper english, grammer & typing skills who's still so lacking in those department, especially when my career as an internet pornographer has actually tripled these skills for me. Jim, I may have a lot to learn, but it has nothing to do with my chosen profession. What you've got left to learn I doubt will ever be achievable in the years you've got left, especially with such a closed mind.
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